PEOPLE WHO ARE VIOLENT TO ANIMALS RARELY STOP THERE!

Tuesday, September 07, 2010

Long fuse


Sometimes I wish my fuse wasn't so long and I would have a shorter temper at any given moment, it really takes me a long time to get so mad that I will just start thinking about doing something about it. Why is that? Right now I could tear a few people around me a new one, but now my mild and meager temperament keeps my lashing out at bay.....Just having a hard time right now to deal with people who talk out of both sides out of their mouth and the ones that have one hand your shoulder and the other one with a knife at your back.....I really need to learn how to deal with people like that more appropriately, but then I really don't know why people are like that, but that's not my problem to figure out so why bother....just keeping my distance and as little as possible contact with these individuals. Boy, I sure value my alone time, no bull shit whatsoever!

6 comments:

Louise said...

Well, lashing out doesn't do any good, so I think your long fuse is an advantage, not a disadvantage, from that point. The plain and simple truth of the matter is that you can't stop the forked tongue ones from doing their dirt. If you have to deal with them, do so as quickly and efficiently as possible, and keep an eye on them at all times. If you don't have to deal with them, then just stay away.

Sigh, easy to say, hard to do, I know.

Sharon said...

I have a short fuse, it comes after I used up the long fuse. Neither works out well. You can't stop the back stabbers or gossipers, but you can ignore them and frustrate the h--- out of them.

Have a good evening, oops.. night!

AJ-OAKS said...

There is nothing you can do about the ones who are two faced. The only thing you can do is choose not to be around them and be a part of their game. I cut ties with several people who were like that and I can honestly tell you I have not lost any sleep over it. And a weight was lifted off of my shoulders.

Tina said...

Oh I so agree with you all, it does take a very very very long time for me to get angry, doesn't mean I put up with s***, but I chose to deal with it differently then others expect. I do stay away,but some of them are hard to avoid, depending on the circumstances. Yikes.

Tracey said...

I have a very short fuse so I admire your long one! Best to ignore them & rise above it all...xxx

polly's path said...

I work with the person you are describing.