Sunday, March 25, 2007

For a reason

I was always a firm believer that all things happen to one for a reason, in the last two weeks so many things have come into my life, just when I needed them or our path have crossed when they needed it the most. Whether is was in the form of a mail answering all my questions I had floating in my head, or if it was a new person who is in a certain business, I am very interested in, or if it was a new friend who I could help out more than they ever thought at the first time we met. It's been great, and even though all things weren't positive, they all happened for a reason. And I am grateful for the things I learnt from these events and the opportunity to grow from them. I have a little bit more new found trust in mankind, literally and it's been amazing.

"Reason, Season or a lifetime

They say People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you
know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone
is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for
the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is
that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The
prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant ."

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