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Thursday, October 25, 2012

Why is it...

...that I have such a hard time making life altering decisions? Why can't things ever be just black and white and easy to solve? Why do I always have to be so torn about things? This matter has been occupied my mind for  a very long time and still I can't make a decision. I am not sure in which way I can make a better contribution? I have stirred the pot for a while now and accomplished some changes or at least the thought of change, but where does that leave me now? People who I totally adore have been more than supportive and encouraging, and yet either way I will let them down, so it's like a "damned if I do, damned if I don't} situation, and I hate it. Come on mind....just kick in and sort things out.

6 comments:

Denise said...

Let me say something here -- what other people think of your decisions is none of your business. You have to do what you feel is the correct path for yourself/your family. If they are friends and family and they truly love you -- nothing you do will change that love! I have this same problem and I tend to over think things. The answer to your questions is before you -- have the courage to do what makes you happiest! Your happiness is the most important part of this decision. hth--Denise

Tina said...

Thanks Denise, the problem is I am not sure what is the best right now for me.

Tonja said...

I think if you aren't sure which way to go, you should take your time making the decision so you don't have regrets.

Tonja said...

...just need to add that it's unlikely that anyone else is thinking about your opinion before they make decisions in their lives. Make the decision for you and your family.

S. J. Qualls said...

Life altering decisions are hard because that's what they are - life altering. Don't worry about what other people think. Take your time, it will come to you.

So, if you take the wrong path? That's what life is for, finding paths, making mistakes, doing your own thing, and learning.

carol smith said...

God really intends to do that. He did that because he wants us to call for him and to look for him when we are in need. Because he loves us more than anything. He also helps you with your problem. Just pray and he will always answer it. Knock him at his door. You'll find the answer.

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