I can remember many times people reacted a certain way towards me and thought I needed to change, loosen up was the favourite phrase someone used to say to me countless times. Loosen up? To have fun? Who said I wasn't having fun? My way?
I just didn't get it and therefore never thought of the need to change. People who love me, accept me just the way I am, and as far as it goes....I am just good enough for me the way I am. :)