PEOPLE WHO ARE VIOLENT TO ANIMALS RARELY STOP THERE!

Saturday, January 08, 2011

Making a new friend!

Ok this will be  a very tough one...how do you make friends with somebody you have disliked pretty much as long as you can remember? How do you change your attitude towards her? How are you suppose to find things to like about her all of a sudden? How do you embrace her views and ideas? How do you accept her neurotic and compulsive ways, her mean and frantic and fear based behaviour? Now that will be a challenge!

7 comments:

Denise said...

There have been reasons for your dislike. Remember them. But, forgive what you can and let God handle the rest.

Take care!

Louise said...

Why would you want to make friends with someone who you dislike? If you have to "get along" with her for some reason, then I guess you just have to bite your tongue and deal with it. Otherwise, unless there is some overwhelming reason, why waste your time. There are plenty of "kindred spirits" (Anne of Green Gables fan) out there.

Cathy said...

If you find out how please let me know - I have a similar problem with someone in my life and could use that rememdy.

Sharon said...

I go along with Louise, unless it's a have to thing - why bother? Sometimes, they do grow on you and you can get along, but otherwise - eh!

Tracey said...

No, don't bother!!! xxx

Tammy said...

Oh boy that seems like a very hard thing to do but I do wish you luck if anyone can do it you can my friend!

Anonymous said...

Interesting thought and one that I think some might relate to. I suppose it would be somewhat of an ease if the person was oblivious to what made you feel this way in the beginning. Go with your heart and know that you do it with your own reasoning and no justifications.