Some of my friends still have not accepted my way of being and I get constant advise of what I should do or what would be best for me. Some think I am depressed and I need to be out more, some say I need to talk about my problems, hmmm maybe you need to hear about my problems, I don't have the need to talk, but that's just my nature and if that's not yours then it is hard for you to understand where I come from. I have always been private about me, my life and what goes on and like one of my good friends always says... I am sure if you feel I need to know then you will tell me and that's how it is and friends understand that about each other. We all are different, we all have different personalities, we all are differently wired and we all thrive on different things. What gets you going might not get me going and the other way around. Friends take you the way you are, without trying to mold you into something they want or need.
Well for all who think I am not in my life right now where I need to be, well I am sorry to inform you that I am exactly where I need to be, I am actually more content than I have been for a long time and life is good. The only thing I need right now is time to absorb all my changes and acknowledgements myself and deal with them and learn from them.